[Jewelry making - Article 00812] - Re: [Orchid] Reality Check - The Sarasota Art League

[richard hart]

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>     You would, in fact, be operating on a larger possibility of self
>     which took for granted that you are an accomplished jeweler (and
>     that people can see that), AND you are interested enough in
>     maintaining contact with people to accept another space and play
>     with it, rising above victimhood to see where that takes you.

    Yes, Silani, I agree and understand what you are saying. This
    approach would involve working beyond how things appear and require
    that we have an intention of the outcome. All things work for good.
    That means you can never tell what good can come out of a situation
    that appears to have nothing positive about it, and sometimes it
    makes sense in retrospect. Ive, Not doing the show guarantees the
    outcome of not making money. Doing the show, there is no information
    until you do it to know how you would do. 

    I understand how you feel about the issue of how you would be
    perceived being in the hands on area, and I think if you chose to see
    it from another perpective, if you see any possibility of anything
    positive about being in the show, focus on that and make your best
    effort. 

    Please understand that sometimes the story we tell is just a story,
    and it is our perspective, not necessarily the truth. Do you ever
    have someone you know tell you what is happening to them, and you can
    see that what is happening to them is directly related to their
    behavior and they cannot see that? Happens to my friends all the
    time, but not to me. Ha HA, just kidding! 

    I have learned that events that seem to put me in a situation that I
    do not like require navigation and negotiation. Navigation to get
    from where I am to where I feel need to be, and negotiation to find a
    way to get what I think I need from another person. One thing more. In
    negotiation I have learned that when someone offers you something,
    replying " That will not work for me, is there any other option you
    can think of to help me achieve my goal." 

    Sometimes the person knows something that can help you, they just do
    not realize it. I have literally said "What is the question I am not
    asking that will give me the answer I need, I know you can help me if
    I ask the right question." 

Richard Hart

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