[Jewelry making - Article 00951] - Re: [Orchid] Just blame it on the Jeweler

[The Doctor]

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    Well, I'm not a full time bench jeweler, but I do recognize the
    problem as it has happened to me in other endeavors. It's just plain
    wrong for someone who is at blame to put it on a co-worker's
    shoulders. Psychologists call it "Projection." But no matter what
    you call it, it is simply not a good thing. Unfortunately, there
    isn't much you can do about it other than catch it as it happens,
    and point it out right then. If you do, prepare for an argument or
    some far-out excuse from the transgressor. A person who would save
    their own reputation this way at the expense of yours is an
    out-and-out liar, and will likely come up with the craziest
    rationale for their actions when caught red-handed. 

    Another option, if you're a patient person, is to say and do nothing
    and wait for their karma to overtake them. From the tone of your
    post, I'll assume you're not quite ready to strike out on your own,
    but that's obviously the only complete solution. 

James in SoFl

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