[Jewelry making - Article 00584] - Re: [Orchid] Friendship Dilemma

[David L. Huffman]

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Hi Mike;

    I'd try an experiment. Create a few pieces that take it up a notch,
    to a level of sophistication in design or craftsmanship that she
    can't easily imitate.  When she comes to you asking for help in
    knocking off your new style, be frank with her. Tell her that you are
    now trying to differentiate yourself.  Explain that you see her and
    your styles as overlapping enough that you think you need to do that.
     Maybe it will then dawn on her that it's unreasonable for her to
    expect you to share the fruits of your efforts with her free of
    charge.  If she makes an attempt to copy the work, confront her and
    ask her why she can't seem to find her own direction and why she
    thinks it's OK to ride on your coat tails.  Friendship and being
    good neighbors is great, but at some point, business is business. 
    Meanwhile, don't discuss your ideas with her.  Just say, "well, we're
    looking to come up with something new and we'd like it to be a
    surprise". You can politely tell her, Orchid is a great place to get
    advice. 

David L. Huffman

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